Unmastered at Warwick Arts Centre
On the 16th June I went to a discussion about
writing emotion with Katherine Angel as part of Warwick Book Festival. Katherine
gave a reading that was beautiful and frank in terms of female sexuality. The
book is fragmented in structure, the resulting narrative like poetry, true, unsettling,
revealing… Listening to her reading it
felt like many threads of the way I had been feeling were being woven together.
How to feel one’s sexuality and be a feminist, or at least a
woman who believes in equality even if I can’t relate to the word ‘feminist’, regarded
as extreme… as if one dislikes men. At least in my experiences it is so when
walking streets outside of the academic community. For it seems to be a woman
who wants equality and being a sexual being have conflicts. Katherine’s work
drew out some of these conflicts.
‘stitched into myself’ was a phrase that resonated, expressing
to me the difficulty women have explaining sexuality to men and one another. I
have been pondering, if a woman can understand and accept the penetrative
nature of sex, whilst also feeling her own engrossing, or receiving force, why
can’t men accept the duality of human desire? What I am trying to grapple with
is why are books, movies, and television so penetration obsessed, where is the
duality?
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